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Tweeter: @ireckon
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Tweetee: @servantofchaos
The Perfect Gift for a Man
Date: Nov 05, 09
Time: 23:00
Category: Lifestyle
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Q1:
"Hi Gavin thanks for joining us"

Thanks for asking!

Q2:
"I know a number of your followers are probably well across PGFAM but can we start with how it all got started?"

Of course! I was asked by @owhitty from the Inspire Foundation to participate in #manweek back in July.

#Manweek was about raising awareness around men's health - in particular depression and the complications that can arise from that

What the research had indicated was that when young men share their thoughts and feelings that chances of them experiencing dep..

..ression drop - and this means the chance of flow-ons - like substance and alcohol abuse (and even suicide) are lessened

So @markpollard and I asked other men to share their own stories - as honestly as they could bear - in support of the #manweek ..

..campaign -- But, of course, #manweek only lasted a week - and the stories - incredible stories - kept coming.

We wanted to not just capture these - but get them into the hands of young men who need to hear them.

So the idea of a book was born.

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Great, being a participant I found it really interesting to not only compose my own for #manweek but to see what..
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.. others wrote.. What feedback have you had so far?

We all had a similar experience. Once people had overcome their fear of sharing their feelings, the floodgates opened

They wanted to share more. To push themselves to be more open and honest. It was astounding to see and touching to read

So ... from the authors, we had fantastic feedback

We have also had tremendous feedback from the wider community. People love the idea of "giving" this perfect gift to other men

Q3:
"Without getting to specific numbers etc. have you been happy so far with the uptake of the book?"

We have made the book available using the Blurb.com self publishing system and as an eBook.

We initially thought that the eBook would be most popular, but the printed version - the real physical gift - is outselling the..

.. ebook version - which is great. And in fact, we are seeing most people buying more than one copy

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that's very interesting. any thoughts why?
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too true! IN context we are getting a copy for reception and 1 for home
Q4:
"What has been the most surprising 'thing' about the whole project to date?"

Perhaps it should not be surprising - but these stories are very uplifting. Even the tales of deep depression, even the stories..

.. about failure and sadness are written with spirit, with hope and with honesty.

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I must admit to being surprised at the level of openness shown

On the last evening when I was doing the final proof read, even though I had read the stories numerous times, I still found the..

.. tears welling up in my eyes. I still felt deeply touched by these intimate, personal stories.

It made me change the way that I think of what it means to "be a man". And I guess that's really what we wanted.

Q5:
"So in a more pointed question do you think if you had read some stories like this when you were younger, would i.."
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..t have helped you?

Yes, I think so. I remember there was one - and only one - book on the market when I was growing up ... it was called Everythin..

..g a Teenage Boy Needs to Know (or something like that)

But there was no soul to it. It was paternalistic. It spoke down to its readers.

And that's the last thing that a young boy wants to read

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I know there was nothing about when i was a teenager. and no one spoke at all!

This sort of book - which covers aspects of a man's entire life - literally from cradle to grave - from a personal POV is very ..

..different

Q6:
"OK this all started as part of #Manweek, which was started by Inspire. How does PGFAM help them and how do they .."
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..help boys/men?

The Inspire Foundation have a very focused program reachout.com which provides space and support for young men

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Are all the funds from the book going directly to them?

and women through a variety of approaches - one being online, the other being a helpline - and through a youth ambassador program

So @markpollard is a (former?) reachout ambassador

and one of the other authors in the book @stevecrombie is as well

And because the initial #manweek program was launched by Inspire Foundation for reachout.com we wanted to make sure that the pr..

..ofits from the sale of the books went back to them - to help them continue their good work

Q7:
"So what types of assistance do reachout ambassadors provide (if you can answer that)?"

Ha! A question I don't really know the answer to ... though you could easily ask @markpollard that one!

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I will follow that up with him in our next tweeterview ;)

I think the ambassadors act as role models - meet with young people, help host events etc ;)

Q8:
"Do you have any other changes coming up with PGFAM?"

Well, we do have some plans for the website - we want to bring reader stories into the mix as well as feedback from the authors..

.. too. We are hoping to also get some insight from the #blurboz folks who have been helping us behind the scenes

But i guess, most importantly, is that we wanted to find a way to really get the book into the hands of more young men ...

Yes, we think it is important to share the story about Inspire and the good work that happens through reachout.com, but the rea..

..l focus is putting the book into the hands of young men. We want them to see that stuff happens, that you can live through it..

.., and that life can still be astounding, challenging and even problematic - and that that is ok. It happens to all of us at s..

..ometime.

So it is with this aim that we are working on a new format of the book. A smaller sized format - that will bring the price down..

... And hopefully generate more sales, reach more young men and encourage them to share their feelings, thoughts and stories

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Do you have any more info on that at present or will that be released in the near future?

We are hoping that in the next 24 hours we will have a revised format ready for sale. We are excited about it. Blurb have been ..

..a great help on this front.

Q9:
"The whole book on demand stuff, while not new, is still very cool. Care to tell us a bit more about Blurb?"

We are actually hoping to start an avalanche. With Blurb, self-publishing is so easy that anyone can do it. We'd love to see mo..

..re men starting to write their own stories, share their experiences - their lives. And basically, if you can type a document,..

.. then you can create a book. And blurb have a neat tool that helps you make your book look fabbo. Of course, @markpollard did..

.. a special design for the Perfect Gift ;)

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was a great design
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Did you mention that there is local support for blurb as well?

And you really do get a small thrill to get your own book in your own hands

Yes, blurb.com are starting up here in Australia - there's a local office with local support. That has made a big difference fo..

..r us

Q10:
"So to help more men, both from Inspire/ Reachout and by the Book itself there are a few things I guess you would.."
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.. like people to do.....Such as Buy books and send to men they know, Fan your facebook page, tweet about it etc..
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..... What Else can you suggest?

Of course! Everything is centralised on the website http://theperfectgiftforaman.com.au

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That was my last question / comment, that I assume you would hope for it to expand / evolve in the future.
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Congratulations with how it has gone so far, very impressed with the work from everyone involved. Keep up the gr..
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..eat work!

Thanks Darryl ... thanks for being part of the book and for organising this too!